The Mood Booster Podcast

Reflecting on: Failure | The Mood Booster Podcast Ep. 64
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Welcome back to The Mood Booster Podcast. This week Charlie and Dr Marcus are getting honest about failure. Not in the hustle bro way. In the real, grounded, psychologically informed way. Because knowing that failure is good for you does not make it feel any less rubbish in the moment.
So in this episode they go beyond the noise, break down what is actually happening in your brain when you face rejection, and give you the tools to genuinely start falling in love with the no. This one is vulnerable, practical, and rooted in the science. Charlie and Dr Marcus share where The Mood Booster really is right now, the rejections they are both sitting with, and why they would not change any of it.
🎧 In This Episode
Charlie and Dr Marcus unpack the psychology and neuroscience of failure, exploring why our brains are wired to treat rejection as a threat, how failure links to identity and self worth, and what the research actually says about resilience. They move beyond hustle culture noise to give you a more human, more honest, and more useful framework for navigating the no's in your own life.
🛠 Practical Advice
By the end of this episode you will have a clearer understanding of why failure feels so uncomfortable, how to cognitively reframe rejection in real time, and a simple shift in perspective that can help you fall in love with the process rather than fixating on the outcome. One no closer to the win. 
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Reflecting on: A Philosopher's Guide to Understanding Your Own Mind w/ Jonny Thomson | Jonny Thomson | The Mood Booster Podcast Ep. 63  
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Welcome back to The Mood Booster Podcast. This week we are joined by philosopher, award winning author, and former lecturer Jonny Thomson, best known for his Mini Philosophy series across social media with over 2 million followers.  
Jonny joins Charlie and Dr Marcus for one of our most fascinating conversations to date, exploring the lost art of introspection, what ancient philosophy can teach us about modern self reflection, and why thinking alone might not be enough.  
In this episode we explore what introspection really means, how the Stoics and Epicureans approached the inner life, and why the people around us might be the key to truly knowing ourselves.  
Jonny brings these big philosophical ideas to life in the most grounded and accessible way, and we think you are going to love everyone.  
🎧 In This Episode we sit down with Jonny Thomson to explore the philosophy of introspection, from the ancient Stoics and Epicureans through to modern day self reflection. We discuss why most of us are doing introspection wrong, the power of deliberation and community, Schopenhauer's Porcupine Dilemma, the danger of chasing validation, and the two questions Jonny believes everyone should be asking themselves right now.  
🛠 Practical Advice Jonny leaves us with two powerful questions to take into your week. First, when do you give yourself time to think? And second, who helps you think?  
Finding your sacred space for reflection and identifying your Epicurean friend, the person you can think out loud with, could be the most important steps you take toward genuine self-understanding.   
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Welcome to Episode 62 of The Mood Booster Podcast. 
In this Friday Focus episode, we break down the psychology behind why so many young men are being pulled toward manosphere content, and why these ideas can feel so convincing, even when they are harmful. 
Building on Monday’s reflection, this episode explores the deeper mechanisms at play. We look at how identity threat, uncertainty, and changing social roles can lead young men to search for clarity and belonging. Research in social psychology shows that when identity feels unstable, people are more likely to gravitate toward groups that offer certainty, status, and a clear sense of direction. 
We also explore the role of father figures and modelling. Psychological research suggests that when consistent male role models are absent or emotionally unavailable, young men are more likely to look externally for guidance on how to behave, what to value, and what it means to be a man. This helps explain why confident online figures can have such a powerful influence, particularly during adolescence and early adulthood. 
We then unpack the concept of gender role strain, and how traditional expectations of masculinity can create internal pressure. Suppressing emotion, avoiding vulnerability, and feeling the need to succeed at all costs are all linked to poorer mental health outcomes in men, including increased loneliness and reduced help seeking. 
We also touch on the role of algorithms and how repeated exposure to this type of content can normalise and reinforce certain beliefs over time. 
Finally, we explore what actually helps. Not by criticising, but by offering alternatives. Healthier role models, emotional education, and expanding what masculinity can look like. 
This is an evidence based breakdown designed to help you understand not just what is happening, but why. 
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Welcome to Episode 61 of The Mood Booster Podcast. 
In this episode, we explore the rise of the manosphere, the idea of the red pill, and why so many young men are being drawn into online spaces that promote rigid and often harmful ideas about masculinity. But rather than criticising from a distance, we take a step back and ask a deeper question. 
What is this content offering that feels so compelling? 
We reflect on the emotional and psychological drivers behind this movement, including the search for identity, direction, and certainty in a world that can feel increasingly confusing for young men. We also explore a pattern we noticed in recent media and documentaries, where many of the men involved describe difficult or absent relationships with their fathers, and what this might mean for how young men learn what masculinity looks like. 
Drawing on psychological research, we discuss how the absence of consistent male role models can lead to increased identity confusion, a stronger pull toward external validation, and a greater susceptibility to online communities that offer clear answers. 
We also unpack the role of patriarchy, not as a buzzword, but as a system that places rigid expectations on men. Strength, dominance, success, emotional control. We reflect on how these expectations can leave many men feeling like they are falling short, and how this pressure can quietly contribute to loneliness, emotional suppression, and disconnection. 
Together, we question whether the manosphere is really creating strong men, or whether it is attracting men who feel uncertain, unsupported, and unsure of where they fit. 
This is a reflective and honest conversation about masculinity, identity, and the environments that shape us. 
If you have ever felt unsure of what it means to be a man, or noticed the rise of these ideas online, this episode is for you. 
If you are new here, welcome. This is The Mood Booster. 
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Welcome to Episode 60 of The Mood Booster Podcast. Guys... this one is special. 
In this episode, we celebrate one year of The Mood Booster Podcast. What started as an idea between two friends has grown into something far bigger than we ever expected, and this episode is a chance to pause, reflect, and take it all in. 
Recorded in Malta overlooking Valletta at sunset, we open a several beers and take a more light-hearted, honest, and reflective approach as we look back on the past year. This is a conversation about the journey, the growth, the unexpected moments, and everything in between. 
We reflect on what this year has really looked like behind the scenes, from the early days of figuring things out to building a community that now reaches far beyond what we imagined. 
Charlie and Dr Marcus ask each other questions about favourite moments, hardest challenges, standout guests, and how our expectations compared to where we are now. We also explore what this journey has taught us, both personally and professionally, and how it has shaped our perspectives on wellbeing, purpose, and connection. 
This episode is less about advice and more about reflection. It is about appreciating progress, embracing the journey, and recognising how far things can come in just one year when you commit to something meaningful. 
In this episode, we reflect on: 
• What one year of consistent podcasting has really looked like • The biggest challenges we faced and how we navigated them• Our favourite moments and standout experiences • Guests who left a lasting impact on us • Expectations vs reality over the past year • What building The Mood Booster has taught us about purpose and growth • Why reflection is such a powerful tool for wellbeing 
If you have been part of this journey with us, thank you. Your support genuinely means everything. 
If you are new here, welcome. This is The Mood Booster. 
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Welcome to Episode 59 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this Friday Focus episode, we turn Monday’s reflections into practical psychological tools to help you deal with rude or aggressive strangers without letting those moments take over your day. 
In the previous episode, we reflected on why sudden hostility from strangers can affect us so strongly. In this episode, we focus on how to respond in a way that protects your emotional wellbeing and prevents someone else’s bad moment from becoming your entire day. 
Dr Marcus and Charlie explore the psychology of emotional regulation during conflict with strangers, including how the stress response activates when someone shouts at us and why we often feel the urge to argue back, defend ourselves, or replay the interaction repeatedly afterwards. 
We discuss practical tools grounded in psychology that can help break this cycle. These include recognising the stress response in real time, separating meaningful feedback from emotional noise, and understanding that many aggressive interactions reflect stress in the other person rather than truth about us. 
The conversation also explores why engaging with angry strangers often escalates conflict rather than resolving it and why choosing not to respond can sometimes be the most powerful form of emotional self-control. 
This episode offers practical strategies for emotional resilience, mental clarity, and protecting your attention and energy when faced with unnecessary conflict. 
🎧 In this episode, we explore 
How to deal with rude strangers without escalating conflict 
Recognising the stress response in difficult interactions 
Why we feel the urge to argue back when criticised 
Separating useful feedback from emotional noise 
The psychology of emotional regulation during conflict 
Why disengaging can protect your mental wellbeing 
Letting go of negative interactions quickly 
How to prevent someone else’s bad day from affecting yours 
This episode is about developing emotional control, protecting your attention and energy, and learning practical tools for dealing with hostility without carrying it forward. 
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Welcome to Episode 58 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly on what happens psychologically when strangers are rude, aggressive, or unexpectedly hostile towards us, and why those moments can stay with us long after the interaction has ended. 
Dr Marcus shares a recent experience of being shouted at by a cyclist while out running. A moment of aggression from a stranger led to hours of replaying the interaction and wondering whether something could have been said differently. Charlie reflects on similar experiences where sudden hostility from strangers felt disproportionate, confusing, and difficult to shake off. 
Together, we explore the psychology behind these encounters. Why do brief interactions with strangers sometimes affect us so strongly? Why do we replay the moment in our heads long after it has happened? And why do we often think of the perfect response hours later? 
We explore the stress response that activates when someone shouts at us, including the fight flight freeze reaction and the role of the amygdala in detecting social threat. We also discuss why humans are wired to care deeply about social judgement and how negative interactions can linger in our minds because of evolutionary sensitivity to rejection. 
This conversation also explores the psychology of attribution. When someone lashes out, we often assume it reflects something about us. Behaviour often reflects stress, frustration, or circumstances in the other person’s life rather than anything we have done. 
This is an honest and reflective conversation about dealing with random hostility, protecting your emotional state, and recognising that someone else’s bad moment does not have to become your entire day. 
🎧 In this episode, we reflect on 
Why strangers sometimes lash out at others 
The psychology of sudden aggression from strangers 
The stress response when someone shouts at you 
Fight flight freeze and social threat responses 
Why negative interactions replay in our minds 
The psychology of attribution and misunderstanding 
Why strangers’ opinions can affect us more than they should 
Protecting your emotional state after difficult interactions 
This episode is about understanding the psychology behind rude behaviour, recognising the stress response that follows, and learning not to internalise moments that say more about others than about you. 
 
 
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Welcome to Episode 56 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly and honestly on the idea of manifestation and why so many people are drawn to it. 
Manifestation has become one of the most talked about ideas in self improvement. Vision boards, scripting your future, speaking goals into existence. Some people swear by it, while others dismiss it entirely. 
Dr Marcus reflects on moments in his life where setting a clear intention seemed to change the way he approached opportunities, relationships, and goals. Charlie shares thoughts on how belief, mindset, and direction can shape the decisions we make, often long before any visible outcome appears. 
Together we explore whether manifestation is really about attracting outcomes, or whether it might actually be about something deeper. The way belief changes how we see the world, what opportunities we notice, and how we behave. 
This conversation is less about magic and more about curiosity. Why do humans find the idea of manifestation so compelling? What role does belief play in shaping the direction of our lives? And how much of our future is quietly influenced by the stories we tell ourselves about what is possible? 
How much does belief shape behaviour? Can intention genuinely change the way we see opportunities? Is manifestation empowering, misleading, or something in between? 
🎧 In this episode, we reflect on: 
Why manifestation has become so culturally popular 
The role belief plays in shaping our behaviour 
Whether setting intentions changes how we see opportunities 
Personal experiences of goals, mindset, and direction 
The difference between magical thinking and purposeful intention 
Why humans are drawn to ideas that give us hope and agency 
The stories we tell ourselves about our future 
This episode is about belief, perspective, and the powerful role our mindset can play in shaping how we move through life. 
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Friday Focus: How to Improve Your Attention Span | The Attention Myth Explained | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 
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Welcome to Episode 55 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this Friday Focus episode, we turn Monday’s reflections into evidence-based advice to help you find joy in your every day. 
Earlier this week, we questioned whether our attention spans are actually shrinking. Today, we go deeper. 
We open with the popular claim that humans now have a shorter attention span than a goldfish and examine what the research really says. A 2024 meta analytical study across 32 countries and more than 21,000 participants suggests attentional performance has not universally declined between 1990 and 2021, aligning with broader cognitive trends associated with the Flynn effect. 
We also explore the argument that the concept of an “average attention span” may be flawed. Attention is task dependent. Sustained attention, selective attention, executive control, and divided attention operate differently depending on context. 
So if our brains are not deteriorating, why does it feel harder to focus? 
We discuss how modern life competes aggressively for our attention. Increased cognitive load, variable reward digital platforms, and constant task switching norms shape the way distraction shows up in everyday life. 
Instead of asking what is wrong with our brains, we ask what is constantly competing for them. 
This episode reframes attention as something that is not broken, but pulled. 
🎧 In this episode, we explore: 
The myth of the shrinking attention span 
The Flynn effect and what it means for focus 
Why “average attention span” may be misleading 
Sustained attention versus divided attention 
The impact of task switching and digital design 
Why distraction feels worse even if capacity is stable 
Attention management instead of willpower 
Practical strategies to protect and train focus 
This episode is about reclaiming your presence, strengthening your awareness, and designing your environment so your attention works for you rather than against you. 
📚 References Cited in This Episode 
- Andrzejewski, D., Zeilinger, E. L., & Pietschnig, J. (2023). Is there a Flynn effect for attention? Cross-temporal meta-analytical evidence for better test performance (1990–2021). Personality and Individual Differences, 216, 112417. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.paid.2023.112417  
- Flynn, J. R. (2012). Are we getting smarter?: Rising IQ in the twenty-first century. Cambridge University Press. 
- Maybin, S. (2017, March 10). Busting the attention span myth. BBC News. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-38896790 
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Reflecting on: Our Shrinking Attention Span | Modern Distraction & Presence | The Mood Booster Podcast | TMBP 
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Welcome to Episode 54 of The Mood Booster Podcast. In this episode, we reflect openly and honestly on the idea that our attention spans are shrinking and whether that narrative actually holds up. 
Dr Marcus shares how recently he has found himself flicking between tasks, tabs, and notifications, questioning whether his focus is worse than it used to be. Charlie reflects on our freediving trip, where being underwater demanded full presence. No phones. No noise. No multitasking. Just breath, awareness, and calm. 
This episode explores the contrast between those two experiences. The clarity that comes with single focus and the fast-paced reality of modern life where we are constantly pulled in different directions. 
We ask whether our attention span has truly declined or whether our environment has simply become louder and more demanding. We reflect on the benefits of deep, uninterrupted presence but also acknowledge that switching between ideas and tasks can sometimes fuel creativity and adaptability. 
How do we balance immersion with flexibility? How do we protect presence without rejecting modern life? 
If you have ever felt overstimulated, distracted, or frustrated with your focus, this episode is for you. 
🎧 In this episode, we reflect on: 
Feeling pulled between tasks and notifications 
Our freediving trip and enforced presence 
The emotional difference between depth and distraction 
Whether attention spans are actually shrinking 
The benefits of single task focus 
Balancing presence with productivity 
The modern attention economy 
This episode is about perspective, balance, and learning how to protect what matters without assuming your brain is broken. 
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